Mt.18:21-35
(Eph.4:30-32) Nov.18, 2007 Play
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Ambivalence about Anger
• Surprising display of anger baffling, embarrassing
• Some say anger OK but not to be prolonged (Eph 4:26)
• Henry Blackaby: anger = sin
Be Careful Whom You Consult
• Commentaries may ‘read in’ emotions not actually in
Scripture text (Mt 21:12; Jn 2:15f)
Divine Anger at Human Unbelief
• Jesus angry / distressed at stubborn hearts
(Mk 3:5)
• God’s wrath against disobedience at judgment (Rom
2:8; Heb 3:10f, 17, 4:3)
Get Rid of It!
• Anger makes subject to judgment; get rid of it (Mt
5:22; 2Cor 12:20; Eph 4:31; Col 3:8; 1Tim 2:8; Jas 1:19f)
• Human anger does not produce God’s righteousness
Right of Revenge Reassigned
• Not grieving Holy Spirit: yield our ‘right’ to be
angry
• Bless persecutors, respond to evil with good, leave
revenge to God (Rom 12:14, 17, 19, 21)
• Re-direct the pain to Jesus
New Community, New Emphases
• Matthew 18 discourse takes sin seriously; grace is
greater; relationships matter ultimately (6-9, 12-14, 5, 20, 35)
Exploding Conventions of Consideration
• Need to forgive someone countless more than 3 or 7
times (21f)
Extraordinary Grace for Extreme Debt
• King inexplicably forgives debt that’s obviously
impossible to pay (23-27; Ex 22:3; Lev 25:39; 2Kings 4:1)
Absurd Anger at a Minimal Amount
• Ungrateful servant then proceeds to abuse, imprison
person owing tiny amount (28-30)
Locked Away for Tortured Pay
• Others inform king, who reverses earlier release:
jailed indefinitely with torture (31-34)
• God will treat us so unless forgive others from our
heart (35; Mt 6:15)
Praying and Repenting to Overcome Bitterness
• Girl found it impossible to please mother, became
nervous, depressed
• Husband’s porn problem only increased guilt,
depression
• Listed and prayed through bitterness, shared with
Jesus who brought relief
• Freedom resulted from forgiveness